Honeymoon in Tehran by Azadeh Moaveni
Azadeh Moaveni published this book slightly too early. It came out last year before the riots over the election in Iran. Thus I assume this sequel to Lipstick Jihad will become the second book in a trilogy.
Actually, it is the 2005 election that pulls Moaveni back to Tehran. There for two weeks before the election, never once does she interview anyone on or off the record who plans on voting for Amedinejad. In fact, many people her age (she was 28 at the time) plan on not voting at all, they have become so disenfranchised with the change that seemed so promising just a few years earlier.
Something that I found fascinating was just how large this voting (or non-voting, as the case may be) block was. At the beginning of the 1979 revolution, people were encouraged to have as many babies as possible. This generation was politically motivated during the past elections, as they were young and in college, or at least college-aged, and idealist. Now, they have grown up, and things like appliances and marriage take up more of their thoughts.
Of course, I knew that that would change in a few years, even if Moaveni herself didn’t at the time of writing this book.
As the effects of Amedinejad’s rule are felt, Moaveni’s personal life changes as she falls in love, and becomes pregnant out of wedlock. She lives with her boyfriend, though she keeps that hidden from most people, especially Mr. X, her government minder.
Getting married in Iran, as they decide to do when she finds out she is pregnant, is no easy matter. Her father lives in California, but she has to get his permission, in person, before the Mullah, in order to get married, despite her age.
Moaveni chooses to deliver her baby in Tehran, rather than go some place else. The only real obstacle is finding an OBGYN who is willing to sneak her husband into the delivery room. That and choosing a name on the government’s list of approved names. She tells of one woman, nine months pregnant, who wants to name her child Rom (I don’t know if maybe it’s spelled Rahm or Ram, as I listened to it on audio). Rom, the mother thinks sound modern, and is easy to pronounce. But it’s not on the list of approved names because it sounds too much like Sam, as in Uncle Sam.
What drives Moaveni and her husband to leave Iran, is, again, the government’s interference with her work as a journalist for Time. They tell her that she’s in trouble, but won’t elaborate, and the paranoia, though justified, is too much of a strain.
I liked that this book seemed to focus a bit more on politics than the last one, but I wish that she had detailed more of the restraints placed on people since Amedinejad was elected. Other than that, it’s another great read.
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Other works by Azadeh Moaveni:
With Shirin Ebadi:
Iran Awakening: One Woman’s Journey to Reclaim Her Life and Country
Tags: autobiography/memoir, education, female authors, Middle Easten/Middle Eastern American, politics, pop culture, psychology, religion
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I’ve read both of Moaveni’s books, and found them very good. I wouldn’t be surprised if she did do a third memoir — as long as there are things happening in Iran. But if she isn’t able to live there, I would think it’d be hard for her to accomplish a hands-on account.
You got me looking to see how that too-much-like-Sam name was spelled; it’s “Som” in my print edition. Crazy how a government would dictate what you can, or can’t, name your own child!